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Wednesday, December 9, 2015

Subject: Thinking good to others



Alhamdulillah. All praise to Allah. Today is a new day for me to wake up and going to work.

The thing that I like to highlight today is thinking good to others.

“Husnu zhon or thinking a good impression to others seems hard these days. There are some reasons we keep thinking bad on others. From my points of view there are several reasons “Su’u zhon “or thinking bad of others happens.

1.    Expectation. We expect someone to be just what they are supposed to be until we become frustrated with ourselves from too being obliviously absurd with their way of thinking or their way of expressing themselves. It’s totally a not good sign to us because we have a doubt to somebody because they don’t meet our expectation.

2.    Double standard. I don’t like if someone want to take you for granted. It’s totally offended people for not being treated in a right way. We are the same human beings or scientifically Homo sapiens. Don’t be a choosy person when you are encountered with a bunch of popular group. Treat others the way you want others to treat you.

3.    Intention: Purify your intention by not simply make a false accusation or impression of others. Always thinking others have a good heart and prepared you to be a good person too.   

I think all of us in common should think others as wonderful and good so that we can have a good relationship with our neighbours, friends and new people. 

Be sincere lilahita’ala instead of judging people without knowing them well. Insha Allah your heart, our relationships with others will be fine and we can turn it into beautiful memories without holding a grudge.



Sincerely

MARRIAGE


From my point of view teenagers now days are too keen to get married. 

Dear youngsters wake up. I used to be just like you until I am realized this is a huge responsibility need to deal with for the rest of my life.

dear girls don't even expect your life marriage will be happy ending like a Cinderella n fairy god mother. PREPARE yourself to meet a total strangers.make sure you are employed and have decent job while we don't know what future holds.

For boys financial and a sense of responsibility are very important. Don't get married because most of your friends does. Get married for a good reason. When you are prepared mentally and physically. Insha Allah for the sake of Allah and to complete your deen (religion). 

Pray hard to Allah.. Allah knows best for us.. 
Don't hesitate to pray to Allah.

A kindly reminder for my self and for youngsters.. take care. Everything will be happen at a right time with a right person. Don't go rushing everything till u collapse.
Come on just chilling and be happy with yourself and family.. 


Tuesday, December 8, 2015

Kenangan Stradford International College 2015

Uwurum Uguchi Joy pelajar Nigeria :)
Khidmat masyarakat di Pusat Jagaan Anak yatim Kasih Abadi 

Sambutan Hari Raya 

Lepas kuliah :P
Pelajar yang dikasihi





Perjalanan Hidupku...


Alhamdulilah sekarang dah masuk hujung tahun dan akan bertemu dengan tahun baru 2016. Aku bermohon yang baik2 sahaja dari Allah atas kenikmatan hidup yang Kau kurniakan kepadaku.  Ampunilah dosa hambaMu ini. Terima kasih kerana memberi rezeki aku di Stradford International College. Aku berpeluang menjadi pensyarah Matematik dan Ekonomi.
Betapa aku mengimbau kenangan semasa aku masih bergelar pelajar Universiti Malaysia Sabah. Banyak kenangan manis dan pahit telah aku lalui. Dari seorang mahasiswa aku bergelar alumni. Subhana Allah banyak perkara yang aku pelajari. Kehidupan yang mencabar. Belajar sambil bekerja sebagai guru mengaji di Kelas Mengaji Al-Baghdadi Kingfisher dan menjadi guru tutor kepada Mahathir. Sabah memang tempat yang istimewa bagi aku.
Dah setahun aku meninggalkan bumi Sabah. Terima kasih untuk pengalaman hidup yang Engkau kurniakan kepadaku. Hamba Mu ingin berterima kasih untuk segala nikmat yang Kau berikan. Kau selalu ada saat aku buntu,saat aku lemah , saat aku hiba, saat aku kecewa, saat aku lelah. Terima kasih untuk semua kekuatan yang Engkau pinjamkan untuk hambaMu yg lemah ini..
Insha Allah aku niatkan pekerjaan aku untuk meraih redaMu ya Ilahi dan redha kedua orang tuaku. Ilmu yang sangat cetek dalam diriku akan ku kongsikan dengan para pelajarku. Permulaan yang baik akan mendapat pengakhiran yang baik. Semuanya akan baik-baik belaka.
Ya Allah hidup dan matikanlah kami dalam nikmat Iman dan Islam. Akhirilah pengakhiran hidup kami dengan khusnul khatimah.. Amin ya Rabbalamin. Alhamdulilah..

Hamba Allah,